As the holidays are now in full swing, most people in New Jersey are believed to be enjoying countless celebrations and event preparations. However, this is not the case for everyone and may not be the case for you. If you are in a marriage that you believe is over, you might be wrestling with the decision about when and how to initiate a divorce.
There is no set right or wrong time for you to tell your spouse that you want a divorce. However, there are many reasons that people often choose to wait to do this until into the New Year. One of these reasons may simply be that you want some additional time to be certain about your decision. Waiting until after the holidays also gives you an opportunity to be prepared. Reuters recommends that you compile important financial documentation before embarking upon a divorce.
Another financial consideration for you might also be any end-of-year bonus that your spouse is set to receive. Once a divorce is filed, that bonus could be deemed separate property so waiting can give you a better chance that it will be folded into the marital estate. The emotional toll that the holidays can take is another reason that many people choose to wait on making a major decision like getting divorced. It also lets you hold things together for your children during this time of year. Separating in January gives kids time to adjust before next year’s holidays arrive.
This information is not intended to provide legal advice but general information about making the choice to file for a divorce New Jersey.