Are you sure you're really ready for divorce?

Although some people who are in a happy marriage might believe that divorce will solve all of their problems, that isn’t always the case. Divorce is not easy and people in Morris County don’t always end up happier after ending their marriage. If you are considering divorce as an option, you might want to consider everything before you make any final decisions.

According to licensed marriage and family therapist, Winifred M. Reilly, there are several things people should ask themselves before they decide to go through with a divorce. One of the best questions a person should ask is whether or not he or she really wants a divorce, or would he or she rather have a better marriage to his or her current spouse? Another question to ask is have you given it your all and done everything you can to help save the marriage?

Although most people tend to look at their spouse’s problems, an important question to ask is whether or not you have really looked at your own role in the marriage? Another question to keep in mind is: Are my expectations just too high? Lastly, probably one of the most obvious and most important questions to ask is whether or not you still love your spouse.

Of course, in certain situations, divorce is the best answer. If divorce is the right move for you, then you shouldn’t go through the process alone. If you are ready for divorce, then you should probably seek the help and experience of a knowledgeable divorce lawyer who can guide you through the entire divorce process.

Source: Huffington Post, “9 crucial questions to ask yourself before calling the divorce attorney,” Winifred M. Reilly, April 21, 2014.